Son a matsayin darajar

Son a matsayin darajar (love kamar yadda valuing). Wannan irin soyayya ne zuwa kashi biyu subtypes:

1) da magana daga ƙauna dabi'u na soyayya da kanta, da kuma soyayya da aka fahimta a matsayin ingancin kima na batun soyayya dangane da m;

2) batu zama m ga lover saboda ta soyayya a gare shi, t. E. A wannan yanayin, da soyayya gane a matsayin ingancin cewa, batun ba (gabatar da) liking.

A farko version bãyukansu J. David Wellman, barata ya Kant ta dabaru, wanda yake a fili daban-daban daga cikin mutunci da farashin (a gaskiya, Kant kusantar da hankali ga bambanci tsakanin wajen da kuma manufofin a soyayya). Yin amfani da wani tattalin arziki da misãli, za mu iya ɗauka cewa farashin zuwa da wajen da darajar wanda za a iya kwatanta ta da kudin da sauran abubuwa ta hanyar da farashin. Wannan yana nufin cewa a fi so za a iya canza ba tare da asarar darajar. By bambanci, da ciwon girma yana nufin a yi darajar da cewa ba shi da ma'ana idan aka kwatanta da sauran darajar. A wasu kalmomin, da kayayyakin da farashin, da kuma mutane suna da mutunci, wanda ba za a iya kwatanta. A cewar Kant, mu girma kamar yadda 'yan adam ne kafe a cikin m yanayi, mu ikon da za a m da dalilai da cewa muna ta atomatik kunshe a cikin definition of manufar burin mu ta kuma amsa da dabi'u, assimilated da mu a cikin duniya. Haka kuma, daya daga cikin manifestations na mu m yanayi ne daraja da girma na dauki ga sauran mutane.

Abin da ya tilasta mu girmama mutum? Wellman ce, shi ne cewa "riƙe son kai" da kuma ta haka ya hana mu daga dangantaka da batun soyayya a matsayin hanyar cimma manufar burin mu. Ya yi imanin cewa soyayya kama da mayar da martani ga girma daga cikin mutum, watau, wato girma shi ne abu na kaunar mu, kazalika da ta Madogararsa. Amma soyayya da kuma girmamawa, akwai daban-daban na mayar da martani ga wannan darajar. Soyayya ba a rike da baya mu kai-soyayya. Maimakon haka, yana riƙe da mu motsin zuciyarmu, watau, Yana robs mu na wani tunanin kariyar kai kafin mutane saboda haka ya raunana mu. Wannan yana nufin cewa amfani, jarrabawa, juyayi, da dai sauransu da cewa yawanci dangantawa da soyayya, kada ka sanya soyayya, amma suna dai a sakamakon al'ada da kuma soyayya iya zama ba tare da su.

Wellman bai dame su amsa, sakamakon su an jera dauki (ban sha'awa, da dai sauransu) da kuma abin da shi ne soyayya? (Domin wasu dalilai, Ina jin kamar yana cewa: tare da hanci!) Babban abu ya na da wani soyayya - shi ke nan guda martani ga isa yabo, amma ba kowane mutum. ( "Love ne mafi kyau mayar da martani ga matsakaicin amfani da sauran.") Me ya sa yake da irin wannan martani ba a bayar da duk? Ina layi na zabi? Wellman yi imanin cewa, selection na faruwa a lokacin da wasu mutane nuna ikon bayyana su girma a matsayin mutum, yayin da wasu suna iya godiya da wannan riba, wanda, duk da haka, saboda wasu dalilai, ya jũya wani tunanin shigewa. Kamar wancan akwai wani rubutu tsakanin hali na "batu soyayya" da "kimantawa" na magana da ƙauna.