Yadda za a shawo kan wani mutum da ya shekara rikicin

Akwai mutanen da suka rayu har abada a cikin wasu m rikicin: kome im ba cewa duk abin da ba ta dace da su, da wasu m kalubale a kusa da. Amma masana ilimin tunani na ce cewa akwai wasu shekaru iyaka, a lokacin da gaske ya zo da haihuwa rikicin a cikin maza.

Age rikicin a yara yakan auku a shekara guda ko biyu, uku kuma shekara bakwai. Kuma babu wani sarari delineation na maza da mata, amma a cikin tsaka shekaru maza da mata suna ta shiga wani rikicin kowane mutum ya ɗauki shekaru.

Saboda haka, na farko tsanani rikicin na shekaru - a lokacin da mika mulki shekaru (13-15 shekaru).

Yana an haɗa ba kawai tare da hormonal canje-canje a cikin jiki da matasa, amma kuma tare da m yunkurin ya sami wuri a cikin al'umma. Sau da yawa, matasa ne kangararrun, sunã da wani m fashewa, a wannan shekaru iya ci gaba da miyagun ƙwayoyi, ko barasa buri. Iyaye za su iya taimaka wa dansa. Don yin wannan dole ne ka shiga ciki duniya da matashi ya san abin da ya ke da sha'awar a, ya kãma m dandani, fashion, ra'ayinmu game da rayuwa. Gaskiyar cewa wasu manya zaton promiscuity ne kawai wani m search kanta.

Na biyu shekaru rikicin zo da American rinjaye, ya miƙa wasu ashirin shekaru uku. A wannan shekara, matasa sun riga fara gina tsanani tsare-tsaren domin nan gaba rayuwa, ba shakka, a mafarkansu, su ne shahararrun, da yara son su, matar da m kyakkyawa da kyau kwarai housekeeper a hade, suka villa kusa da teku, da kuma tsada motoci. Wadannan mafarki sau da yawa da nisa daga m gaskiya da kuma rayuwar yau da kullum. Wasu shirya zuwa ƙetare 'yan matakai da kuma samun aure a wannan zamani, domin bayyana wa kansu da kuma wasu karin balagagge, da real shugaban iyali.

Bugu da ari, kusa da shekaru talatin (wani ya wannan shekaru rikicin ya auku a 27-28 shekaru) karshe zo da ganin cewa mafarki juya a kira su da cikakken maganar banza da cewa su aka ba ƙaddara ta zo gaskiya, kuma a nan ya zo da tsatsauran kalmar "ba." The saurayi ya sani cewa ba zai zama villa cewa ba zai iya zama na farko a cikin kome, kuma ba ya zama mai Celebrity. Family - wannan hackneyed rayuwa, da rashin kudi, m matsaloli, da kuma ba da farin ciki murmushi fuskoki da talla da kofi. Wasu a cikin wannan shekara ya shiga cikin wani m ciki, za a fara sha nauyi, wani al'amari a gefe. Daga wannan jiha za su iya, idan yadda ya kamata kimanta su ƙarfi da fara kafa achievable raga.

Saboda haka irin kamar rai da ake samun mafi alhẽri, rayuwa dakunan, da nufin sa wani mutum koya, tare da wani unreachable mãsu ƙasƙantar da kai, amma ya sneaks mafi tsanani, mafi protracted da mafi m rikicin. Ya zo a cikin shekaru na 37-39, a lokacin da wani mutum ya fara fahimta ba kawai a hankalce, amma jiki da kuma jin cewa shi har yanzu mutum. Wrinkles, matafã ba hairline, lokaci-lokaci rents kiwon lafiya, wani lokacin ya zo da iko, da kudi ba zai kawo tsohon gamsuwa, ina so in sami wani aiki ga rai. Maza, saboda hormonal katsalandan zama mafi m, suna bukatar fahimtar, amma matashi yara ma prickly da kuma matarsa fafitikar da ta rikicin. Kuma a sa'an nan ya zo da ceto da dukan wannan muhimmanci sahabbai: buguwa, mãsu yin zina, wata yaudara. Kawai laifin cin amanar kasa ne yanzu wasu m: adult gwaggwanninku kokarin samun to gado kamar yadda da yawa 'yan mata matasa, domin tabbatar da kansu. Kuma a sake, akwai zo a kalaman na saki, saboda kawai wani sosai mace mai hikima zai iya fahimta da kuma gafarta irin antics mata.

Kamar yadda ka gani, shekaru rikicin a maza katse short-rayu na shekaru da wani m rayuwa. Amma da mace, da sanin da kuma fahimtar 'yan uwa a cikin wani wuri da ya taimake su jimre da duk wani matsaloli a rayuwa, don taimakawa wajen shawo kan rikicin, shafa da kuma nadama.