Yadda daidai ya yi jima'i

Domin cimma jituwa a jima'i, da farko kana bukatar ka sami mai kyau matsayi ga juna gamsuwa na da matsakaicin, dangane da halaye na kanJamau, da darussan da aka koya daga rote da daidai jima'i. Batun shi ne cewa ya kamata mu ka manta da m bangaren na wannan al'amari. Wannan yi iya taimaka a gano da daidai hali. Bari mu magana game da yadda za a fassara iri-iri daban-daban postures mutane, da kuma abin da yardar shi ya kawo, da kuma mafi muhimmanci, da yadda za a yi jima'i yadda ya kamata.

Babban, a cikin abin da abokan su ne fuska da fuska, hadu domin jima'i, musamman da bukatar sadarwa. Bayan duk, waɗannan dabbobi babban babu. A yawa na mutane sau da yawa bukatar a lokacin jima'i ba sosai fun cikin sharuddan inzali, nawa kai-sani game da abin da ya faru shafi tunanin mutum da ci na biyu abokan.

Babban, a lokacin da mutum a kan saman bai gamsar da kowa da kowa. Domin da yawa mata, wannan hali shi ne wata alama ce mai irin tsaro, a ji cewa namiji jiki rufe da shi, gaba daya daga duk. Saboda haka, don haka jin dadi. Wannan matsayi ne sau da yawa ake magana a kai a matsayin mishan. An yi imani da cewa wannan shi ne mafi tsoho hali a ƙasa. Amma, akwai wasu mata suka yi da'awar cewa domin su - shi ne wata alama ce raini ko rashin tunani. Just a cikin wannan wuri jima'i da hannu wadanda daga matarsa, wanda a zahiri ƙi mazansu, sabili da haka da kusanci zuwa gare su. Sabõda haka, domin iyakar gamsuwa da irin wannan hali ba dace. Saboda haka, a cikin amsar tambayar, da yadda za a yi jima'i, mishan matsayi, yana da kyawawa don ware domin gogaggen abokan. Amma idan abin tambaya shi ne yadda za a dauki farko jima'i, mishan matsayin - mafi kyau zaɓi.

Wannan ba shine matsayi a cikin abin da mace a kan saman. A ka'ida, shi ne mafi faranta wa maza, saboda, kamar yadda mai mulkin, mata ne mafi alhẽri maza. Duk da haka, irin wannan jima'i lamba matsa lamba a kan juna yawa karami, kuma ba shakka, babban aiki a kan aiwatar da bayar kawai abokin tarayya. Saboda haka, wannan matsayi ne amfani more aiki da mata da maza ne sosai gaji. Hakika, cewa nufi duka biyu abokan aiki a duk wurare. Amma a wannan wuri, da dukan tsari, kuma ciki har da na ayyuka yana da wata mace. Amma wani abokin tarayya a cikin wani matsayi na "mace a saman" kuma iya matsar wani bit, ko kawai cuddle su abokin tarayya. Ni'ima daga wannan matsayi ba su samu kawai mutanen da suka yi la'akari da su, don zama "sanyi". Saboda a gare su - shi ke da wani irin ci na abokin tarayya, wanda shi ne kawai unacceptable. A wasu lokuta, shi ne yardar duka biyu abokan a kusan daidai sassa.

Zaka kuma iya kokarin zaune hali. Sun kasance a cikin rukuni na mafi m postures, saboda ba su yin addini kamar yadda kowa, amma kawai domin nagartaccen, mai ladabi da kyau jima'i. Irin wannan postures bukatar daidaita abokan, kuma sama da dukan a cikin girma. Tun lokacin da 'yar alamar raskhodstva gubar da cewa wannan matsayi shi ne kusan ba zai yiwu ba. Amma shi damar domin iyakar lamba tare da idanu na wani abokin tarayya.

Matsayi "mutumin da a baya" aka ɗauke ta daga dabbobi, da kuma bukatar a raba tattaunawa. Mutane na iya gabatar da wannan amfani sosai kadan a farkon matakai na raya kasa na yin jima'i. Amma a ƙarshe za mu fahimci cewa shi ya kawo da yawa daga yardarSa, maza da mata. Kamar yadda ka sani, da yawa maza ne sosai m wannan musamman matsayi. Gaskiyar cewa wani mutum a cikin wannan matsayi ba zai iya ganin fuskar da abokin tarayya. Kuma sau da yawa ya zo da shi m yardar. Ya imperceptible kananan dauki mace, da kuma saboda haka ba zai iya tunani sosai, a lokacin da ta yi kyau, amma a lokacin da ka kawai m. Don da yawa shi ya kawo mafi gamsuwa domin za ka iya tunanin cewa a gaban ku da sauran mace, ba daya to wanda suke saba wa. A wasu irin mutãne son shi da yawa.

A karshe bukatar tunatar da ku abin da matsayi ne daidai a gare ku. Irin wannan zabi ne gaba ɗaya dogara a kan tsarin da jiki da tunani. Saboda haka kada ka yi zaton cewa idan wani aboki a wajenka, kamar wasu matsayi, shi ya kamata, kuma za ka son shi. Gwada da kuma zabi abin da yake daidai a gare ku a cimma iyakar da yardarSa. Kada ka manta game da shawarwari, da yadda za a yi jima'i, kamar yadda aka bayyana a sama. Bayan duk, wani lokacin shi ba fahimtar amsar da matsalar yadda za a yi jima'i da kuma Sanadin sabani da yawa ma'aurata.