Su waye ne masu ƙiyayya ("hater")?

A cikin ma'anar rap na zane-zane sau da yawa zaka iya samun kalmar "hater" ("hater"). Mene ne abin mamaki, idan an ambaci su a kusan dukkanin waƙoƙin mai bayar da rahoto? Wanene hayters? Wanene zaka iya kiran wannan kuma wanene ba? Bari mu yi kokarin fahimtar wannan tambaya mai ban sha'awa.

Idan an fassara shi daga Turanci, maigidan shine mutumin da ya ƙi wani saboda wani dalili. Dalilin ƙiyayya a wannan yanayin shine nasarar wani, fahimta, shahararren kuɗi da kudi. Ga 'yan jarida da yawa, duk wannan alama ce ta nasara. Wato, wasu masu wasan kwaikwayo na da masu sauraro, kuma wadanda ba su cimma abin da suke so su fahimci nasarar da wani ya samu ba. A nan, a gaba ɗaya, shine bayanin mafi sauki akan wadanda suke hayters.

Mene ne abincin da ake yi?

Mahimmanci, irin waɗannan mutane suna shiga cikin wannan furta ra'ayinsu game da wanda ya fi nasara fiye da shi. A matsayinka na mai mulki, bai yi magana a fili game da ƙiyayya ba, ba shi da ƙarfin hali don yin haka. An yi rajista a kan wani dandalin tattaunawa ko a cikin ɗakin taɗi, a karkashin wasu mummunan suna (alal misali, "BAYAN FONTANOM") kuma yana fara la'anta kowa da kome. A lokaci guda, jawabinsa ba sau da yawa.

Dalilin wannan halayyar shine matashi mafi girma. Hakika, wanene hayters? Wadannan su ne wadanda suka ce wannan dan wasan (waƙa, salon, jagorancin musa, wani abu, wani abu) yana da tsalle, amma wannan abu ne mai mahimmanci. Kuma ba shi da ma'ana don yin jayayya da shi, a wannan yanayin, babu hujja za ta taimaka. Ga wani fata, kawai ra'ayinsa daidai ne kuma kalmominsa gaskiya ne kawai. Ganin gaskiyar kansa da kuma rashin fahimta cewa akwai wasu ra'ayoyin - waɗannan su ne ainihin abubuwan da suka hada da aljanna mafi kyau. Yawancin lokaci, mutane da yawa sun daina faɗi wani abu kamar "Ni danki." Ya zama ba mahimmanci wanda yake da sanyi, kuma wanene ba. Amma akwai mutanen da suke riƙe da wani saurayi maximalism a shekaru 30.

Wasu mutane suna da ƙwarewa ta musamman don ƙunshi fushi, ƙiyayya da kishi. Zasu iya zama halayen halayya masu tsanani, kuma kawai mutane ne kawai. A kowane hali, kana buƙatar koyon fahimtar hayters.

Yadda za a magance irin waɗannan mutane?

A bisa mahimmanci, a bayyane yake wa wanene irin waɗannan mutane, amma yanda za a yi da irin wadannan mutane masu ha'inci da abokan gaba? Kuskuren rashin kulawa ga makircinsu na asiri zai zama cikakkiyar rashin kulawa. Ko da idan ka yi fushi da fushi, ka yi hulɗa tare da heyter suna da tausayi da kwanciyar hankali. Kada ku ci gaba da zama akan mutane, ku yi magana da shi a takaice kuma a kan kasuwanci. Bayan haka, sau da yawa, ta hanyar halayyarsu, suna ƙoƙari su ɓoye rashin tabbas a cikin kwarewarsu da tsoro (don fahimta da rashin yarda da jama'a). Mafi mummunan ni'ima shine mutumin da bai nuna halin kirki ba. A cikin sadarwa tare da ku sune abokantaka da kyau, kuma bayan ku na farko zai fara ku (zanenku, style, da dai sauransu) don tattaunawa.

Sun kasance kuma za su kasance kullum. Dole ne mu koyi ya bambanta tsakanin zargi da kishi. Kasancewa da kyau ya sa mu ci gaba da zama mafi kyau. Kuma masu kishin da suke magana game da ku a bayan bayanku kada su kula. Ba kome bane idan kun saurari rap, rubuta shi (ko yin wani abu dabam) - koyon fahimtar inda ake zargi, da kuma inda - da heit.