Su wane ne swingers, ƙashin gaskiya game da su

Kokarin gane suke swingers, ba shi yiwuwa ba a lura da yiwu Sanadin wannan sabon abu. Kamar yadda suka ce, soyayya zaune shekaru uku, da kyau, so da ma kasa. Amma abin da ku ke yi a lokacin da so ya wuce, soyayya kwanta, ya yi girma a cikin wani abu kasãla?

Wani ya folded fukafukinsa da gudana sannu a hankali ta hanyar da monotonous rayuwa, da kuma wani ne ba farin ciki da wannan halin da ake ciki. Da alama ya zama da na biyu da rabi ne gaba daya gamsu matsayin aboki, da kuma yara girma, kuma kamar dukan sauran mutane, amma ya rasa wasu drive a rayuwa, wani motsi ko wani abu. Wasu suna monotonous salon, sauran shuke-shuke da kansu masoya. Kuma sãshen yanke shawarar da ya dulmuya cikin lilo, wanda da zato zai ajiye iyali jirgin ruwan.

Kamar yadda a kullum, marigayi zo mana wannan ra'ayi kuma duk da haka suka yi swingers? KanJamau suke yin musayar tsakanin kafa da nau'i-nau'i.

Abin da ya lilo?

The kalmar "swinger" ya zo daga jazz "lilo", watau sauri tsalle daga daya rubutu zuwa wani, da kuma a cikin yanayin - "tsalle" daga daya abokin zuwa wani. Hali zuwa wannan sabon abu zai iya zama matuƙa, daban-daban a cikin daban-daban kungiyoyin na yawan jama'ar, amma, kamar yadda muka sani, da statistics - su ne m abubuwa. Kuma watsa shi cewa game da 20% na ma'aurata a kalla sau daya aikata lilo zama, da kuma 40% free daga shaidu na bata da wannan fatar akalla sau daya mafarkin to saka haram dangantaka a rayuwarsu.

Swing ne zuwa kashi da dama iri:

• sauki lilo ba ya nufin jiki kafirci tsakanin abokan, amma kawai damar domin juna so, da sha'awar saduwa, kamar yadda za su iya zama tare da wani;
• m lilo ya yarda da ciwon jima'i a kusanci zuwa juna ba tare da musayar abokan;
• na cikin gida lilo damar domin jiki kawance, ma'aurata musayar abokan da kuma watsa su daban-daban da dakuna ko Apartments. Ya yi masu ma'aurata suka so su yi kokarin jiki kawance da juna, ba quite saba da mutum;
• waje lilo ne a lokacin da abokan ake jima'i gabã ɗaya, sakewa da makamashi a gabar cewa mataki za a iya kira wani cin duniya.

A kadan tarihi

So don samun amsar wannan tambaya da wanda ake swingers, shiga cikin tarihi. Domin duk abin da dalili, talking samo asali a Czechoslovakia a cikin gurguzu lokaci a tsakiyar karni na karshe.

Amma mafi tartsatsi wannan sabon abu ne a California daga American hippies. Babu tsoron AIDS ko wasu venzabolevany ba a daina mutane ta so ga bambancin a jima'i - shi ne su taken.

A 60-70 shekaru na karshe karni, manufar bayyana a duniya , "Swedish iyali" da kuma wakilan m matasa, kamar yadda tsayayya wa gargajiya iyalai, shirya "soyayya triangles". Yaren mutanen Sweden swingers - mambobi ne na "Swedish iyali", suna harhada a general, kamar haka: mutumin + mutumin + mace ko namiji + mace + mace da samun sadarwa a cikin kungiya.

Tattauna da tambaya na ke swingers, ya bayyana cewa hali ga wannan batu ne sosai bambancin, daga sharply korau zuwa musamman tabbatacce, kuma wani gaba daya sha'aninsu dabam da kuma swingers.

Wannan sabon abu a cikin manyan birane shirya a lilo kulake domin socializing da kuma Dating, a matsayin short-rayu shekaru swingers ma'aurata, daga 6 zuwa 12 watanni, domin jigon wannan dangantaka ne canji m abokan.

Ko Sigmund Freud zarar ya bayyana cewa jima'i sabawa - yana da ba su karkatar da jima'i ba tare da game 'yan luwadi, da jimlar babu jima'i.